Certain statements and communication styles are detrimental to achieving a positive outcome in child custody mediation. These involve expressions of anger, personal attacks, irrelevant details, and unsubstantiated accusations. For example, blaming the other parent for past marital failures or divulging private information about their personal life are counterproductive. This also include name-calling or using disparaging language. Sticking to fact and issue will ensure a good mediation process.
Maintaining composure and focusing on the child’s best interests is of paramount importance. A controlled and respectful demeanor promotes constructive dialogue and increases the likelihood of reaching a mutually agreeable custody arrangement. The mediation process seeks to establish common ground and facilitates co-parenting; therefore, accusatory and inflammatory language are significant impediment to this objective. A neutral approach to the other parents may help resolve conflict.
